Self Help: Becoming The Solution To Your Situation
Self Help
Self Help is one of those words that has so many different meanings…….It conjures up thoughts of self- help and motivational gurus, books and audio tapes designed to enrich a persons life, but what does it really mean to “self help”?
Self Help is when a person finally comes to the conclusion that they are the “masters of their domain”, the controllers of their life no matter what. Although this is ultimately where everyone wants to get, it is a sobering thought…….
The thought that every success, every failure you have is because of you………This is real self help…..Designed to allow the individual to apply the self help they need when they need it….
So why would anyone read a book about self help or an audio program about self help? Why would you pay for a mentoring session that involves a process that is a self help situation?
The entire key to the self help solution is coming to be aware that although you are in control of what goes on, it is always better to have a third party to confirm what you are attempting to do……
Having a mentor in the self help process, could be a live person you speak to on the phone once a week or once per month for self help or it could be a book, audio, video or other resource of your choosing for you own individual self help situation…..
Your local library is full of self help information you can use to propel yourself in an upward direction. Take a trip there and start to see the vast resources available to you for free……Begin your self help journey there and then formulate a plan from there for your next move……
The problem with just going to the library is you usually don’t have the feedback that a mentor or coach can give you with what you are looking to accomplish…..Take the time to see the value of how engaging a mentor or coach would increase your ability to self help…..
I offer mentoring services, but I am not suggesting you contact me immediately and start paying me for my mentoring services….Not at all… Find someone you can relate to and get them to help you to self help, but make sure they have the experience and knowledge to assist you in your journey to self help.
If you would like a free consulting session to explore the possibilities of learning how to self help, you can contact me at 609.528-0607 or email me at aperhacs@optonline.net
-A.T.
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